We’re all guilty of dreaming about the perfect wedding day, but how many Brits fantasise about the proposal too? With social media bringing wedding proposals to a wider audience, it comes as no surprise that the methods and details of proposals are becoming more and more elaborate. With many couples hoping to impress their friends and family, and take that all-important photo for Instagram, what are the most sought-after proposals amongst Brits?
Diamond ring specialists F.Hinds surveyed 2000 people in the UK and found that 32% of Brits hope to be whisked away to an iconic romantic destination for the proposal – think the Eiffel Tower in Paris or the Empire State Building in New York. This type of proposal sounds like something straight from a romantic film but be careful, as three-quarters of Brits admit to being put off if proposed to in front of a large crowd or audience. Maybe it’s time to rethink the flash mob you’ve just booked.
Perhaps shockingly, 55% of those surveyed said that they would consider proposing at another wedding – just be sure to check with the bride and groom beforehand. No-one likes the spotlight being taken from them, especially on their wedding day!
As opposed to the big, bold gestures, 18% of Brits said that being proposed to at home would be their preferred method, showing that it’s the love for each other, not the destination, that defines the experience. Just be wary of how long you have been in a relationship before popping the question, as almost half (47%) of Brits said that a proposal too early in the relationship would be a reason to reconsider.
Who doesn’t like a bit of spontaneity in their lives? However, it might not be the right way to approach popping the question. A healthy 17% of those surveyed stated that they would be put off accepting if the proposal was done without an engagement ring.
After considering how you are going to ask for your intended’s hand, have you considered how much you are willing to spend? According to F.Hinds, on average Brits consider the perfect proposal to cost £2,348; fear not, however, as this figure includes the purchase of an engagement ring. Location can fluctuate this figure, with Londoners expecting £3,031.49 to be spent and residents of Belfast even more at £3,157.45. It also turns out that millennials have expensive taste and big aspirations when it comes to proposals, with their perfect proposal costing £4,102 on average.
Asking your partner to marry you should be an exciting and memorable moment. Take into consideration what you enjoy as a couple, your favourite places and your personalities. This will help you gauge the type of proposal for which to opt, whether it’s big or small.
